i’m the type who tries to empathize, laugh a lot, and match the vibe when i’m chatting or hanging out with friends or anyone
but sometimes there are folks who, maybe without even realizing it, treat me like a joke and say really shitty stuff
i hate it when people look down on me or treat me like a joke, so honestly i want to call them out on how the hell they’re being so rude, but i’m scared it’ll ruin the mood so i can’t say it directly
any ideas on how i should deal with this
Relatable... +1
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Just throwing shade with a smile is the best way.
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Call them out when they diss you in front of everyone. Ask them, 'Why do you keep trying to put me down every chance you get?' If your other friends are normal, they'll take your side because they already know that person's been doing it to you for a while. You have to make a scene once, it's unavoidable. If you talk to them privately, you never know what kind of lies they'll make up and spread.
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